Retarded Ejaculation - A Scientific Review


Science and retarded ejaculation

Dr D Richardson and Dr D Goldmeier, produced a review on how retarded ejaculation should be defined, managed and treated. International Journal of STD and AIDS, 2006, 17, 7-13.

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Psychological therapies for delayed ejaculation

Sex therapy experts suggest relaxation combined with psychotherapy. Others suggest viewing porn films, reading sexually stimulating material or training in masturbation. To this list we would add our suggestion of using tantric sex therapists. All of these methods are intended to increase arousal so that a man finds it easier to approach the point of ejaculatory inevitability.

If inadequate stimulation is the "block" to reaching climax, then in theory vigorous stimulation using plenty of lube might be expected to produce an improvement in a man's orgasmic capacity. And if a man can learn to ejaculate near the vagina, he can gradually get his penis nearer and nearer at the point of emission until he is able to ejaculate intravaginally.

Other therapies which have been suggested include varying the sexual positions in which a couple make love to provide maximal stimulation for the man, or the use of vibrators to add extra stimulation to prescribed masturbatory exercises. Also, a therapist may be helpful in reducing a man's inhibitory fears - which may include fears of pregnancy, fear of commitment or other psychodynamic motivations (castration anxiety, fear of the vagina, vaginal revulsion) - all things which may impact on a man's ability to relax and "let go" during sexual intercourse.

We believe hypnosis is a useful addition to any kind of therapy; but alone it is not enough, and psychotherapy for both partners is often helpful. But, fundamentally, if a man suffers excessive guilt and shame around sex, then psychotherapy of some kind will be need to ensure a liberated attitude to sex, with all its messiness, bodily fluids, and intimate transactions.

Sexual healing is something which can be achieved in many ways, but the use of a good sex therapist is high on the list of desirable approaches to this condition. Surrogate sex partners and Tantric therapists are very useful: they are non-judgmental, accepting, and skilled in promoting a relaxed attitude to sex. Indeed, sex-play as a treatment for retarded ejaculation has been described both anecdotally and in a small cohort. 104,105 Some authors suggest the use of tantric sex home assignments to increase pleasure in couples with sexual problems. These methods draw from Hindu and Buddhist tantric traditions which reflect some Asian approaches to sexuality. 106

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