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Sexual therapy for retarded ejaculation

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There are other ways of making treatment for retarded ejaculation more effective.

To start with, men need to know "what's at risk," that is, what are the consequences for both him and her if his retarded ejaculation comes to an end? For example, the woman may wonder what the man might do if he did not have the sexual impediment of retarded ejaculation. Dealing with questions such as these is important, because it can promote the course of therapy.

When treating a sexual problem as challenging as retarded ejaculation, you simply can't get away from the fact that it's intimately bound up with the relationship. One way of making a couple more sexually literate and engaged with each other is to make their sexual and erotic scripts more fluent, exciting and dynamic. This means uncovering those parts of their sexual life that they hide, repress and deny, thereby allowing them to develop a new sexual profile and to discover each other's sexuality and see their deepest sexual secrets in a new way. In men with retarded ejaculation, an exaggerated concern for the partner's sexual pleasure serves to hide the man's lack of courage about exploring his sexuality. For many people, of course, there have been traumatic experiences in their history which lead to an avoidance of intimacy or to a loss of access to the sexual self. In such cases, altering the focus from the couple's interpersonal conflicts and looking instead at each partner's intrapsychic sexual conflicts and fears is often a good way forward.

It's an exciting process to discover one's own erotic world, but it often produces defensive reactions, anxiety and sometimes guilt. It's at times like these that we all need an emotional safety net. Even so, it's worth going to these places, because they reveal so much more about ourselves: the key question here is always - which of your sexual fears have been sheltered by your partner's delayed ejaculation?

The "Ideal Sexual Scenario" is an idea which can help elucidate the sexual aspirations, fears, and desires of both partners, as well as the unlived, or underlying sexual potential that's harder to get at through simple questioning. Each partner takes it in turns to fantasize being completely egotistical during sex, with absolutely no need to be considerate of their partner. This ideal scenario, with great detail and descriptions of actions, can be enlightening for both partners. (As can imagining what your partner's ideal sexual scenario would be.) The Ideal Sexual Scenario is very helpful in the treatment of couples affected by retarded ejaculation.

Treatment of retarded ejaculation

Lifelong retarded ejaculation is one of the most challenging sexual disorders to understand. Even so, treatment offers great hope of gaining normality and a newly enriched sexual life for both partners. We know that both neurobiological and psychological factors have a part to play in both the etiology and the course of retarded ejaculation. However, it's far from clear why men differ so much in their ejaculatory latency and their ability to ejaculate during intercourse. Only an integration of psychosocial and neurological research will give us a better understanding of this disorder.

Retarded ejaculation isn't nearly as difficult to cure as it might seem. The treatment of retarded ejaculation needs to incorporate behavior therapy, sex therapy and and any medical issues.

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